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Sezvo foni uye kushandiswa kwefaira zvinoshambadza pakati pevadzidzi vaduku nevakuru vekusekondari, nyaya yekutumira mameseji ekutambisa mitero yakarerekera musoro wayo munharaunda dzedu. Kubvira pamakamuri ekukurukurirana nevechiri kuyaruka - apo kutumira mameseji episimusi kazhinji kunofungidzirwa se'vanze 'kunyange semashoko akadai se'Kik sexting' uye 'Snapchat sexting' inotora midzi yakasimba munyika yedu - kuvana vaduku vanowanikwa paIndaneti vanovhima uye vanotyisidzira vechidiki uye gumi mukutumira mapikisa anopisa, vaduku vari kutora pics vasina kupfeka uye vari kugoverwa kuburikidza nefoni uye internet.
Havasi ivo voga vabereki vanofanira kutarisana nezvinorehwa nevechiri kuyaruka kutumira mifananidzo yefoni isina kunaka uye magwaro, asi vadzidzisi uye kutevedza mitemo vakabatana nekushaya simba sechirwere chematambudziko matsva-uye kupera kwemitemo yakasimba yekutumira mameseji efoni -ikozvino kune vamwe kunze iyo mapato anoshanda.
Kufanana nedzimwe nyaya dzakawanda dzevechidiki, vabereki vanofanira kuve vakangwarira pamusoro pemashandisirwo emudzidzi wefoni uye vachizarura nzira yekukurukurirana pamusoro pekutumira mameseji ekutumira mameseji, anodaro Lori Cunningham, weCheckConnectedMom.com, blog yakataura nezvemamese uye teknolojia.
"Iwe une hurukuro dzepabonde nemwana wako, unoda kuva nekutumira sext nemwana wako," Cunningham akati, mumubvunzurudzo rwefoni. "Kubudirira nekutumira mameseji ekutumira mameseji kune zvakawanda zvine chokuita nokukurukurirana pakati pevabereki nevana."
Kunyange zvazvo foni yaimboshandiswa pakuvaka chimiro, nhasi wechidiki iye zvino ari kuita ne teknolojia pamwe chete nemazuva ezvinyorwa zvemazuva ekupfuura uye kuchikoro chesekondari. Mugumisiro wekupedzisira, Cunningham anoti, ndiyo inokwanisa kutumira mameseji ekutengesa kuitika apo mwana wenyu anotanga kutanga kufambidzana.
Asi, pane kungofunga nezvekutumira mameseji ekutengesa kwevechidiki ari oga, Cunningham anoti kutarisa kutendeseka kwevechidiki nekudanana kunogona kutora nguva yakareba kudzivirira migumisiro yekugovana zvifananidzo zvepabonde uye zvakaiswa nevamwe.
"Kana iwe ukabvunzurudza vechidiki, vazhinji vanozoti kutumira mameseji ekutumira kune zvakaipa," akadaro. "Asi, pavanenge vari muukama, mutsauko ndewokuti kuvimba kunowedzera - vanofunga [vamwe vavo vanokosha] vane musana wavo. Nhamo, kana vachinge vaputsa, ndeye apo zvifananidzo izvi zvichitenderera."
Cunningham anokurudzira vabereki kuti varatidze rudo asi vakasimba mukutsanangura kuti havasi hukama hwose hunoshanda uye dzimwe nguva vechidiki vanopedzisira vasingapedzere zvakanaka. Kana vechidiki vari kugovana mifananidzo iyi, vangangove vachizoonekwa, akadaro.
Pakupedzisira, vabereki havasi kusunungurwa kubva pamutoro uyu nokuti iwe haunzwisisi teknolojia.
"Iyi ndiyo kutaura kwechizvarwa chemazuva ano," akadaro Cunningham. "Kunzwisisa teknolojia yezuva ranhasi uye kuishandisa nevechiri kuyaruka kuchaita kuti vabereki vabatane nevechiri kuyaruka (nokuti vari kushandisa mukana wekukurukurirana wevechidiki) pamwe nekuchengetedza vana vavo vari mumamiriro ezvinhu ane ngozi."
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Somubereki, kudzivisa kutumira mameseji ekutumira zvinoda kutaurirana nekugadzirira. Heano mazano mashomanana akamira kunze kwehurukuro yangu naMnu Cunningham:
Chengeta Kukura Usati Waipa Vana Serofoni
Cunningham anotaura Dr. Charles Sophy, mutungamiri wezvokurapa weLos Angeles County Department of Children's Services, mukurudzira vabereki kuti vafunge kushandiswa kwefoni pazera remakore 12. Zvisinei, anonyevera, kwete vana vose vakagadzirira ipapo.
Funga nezveMubereki-Teen Cell Phone Contact
Ita zvinotarisirwa uye zvinotungamirirwa nevechiri kuyaruka uye uzviise pakunyora.
Regai Vechiduku Vane Zivo Yazvo
Mukuwedzera pakusarudza zvakakodzera dhesi uye kutumira mameseji emisheni, vabereki vanofanira kutsanangurawo mwana wavo achiri kuyaruka asina mudziyo wavo. Sechikamu chehurukuro iyoyo, kurukurai sarudzo yekuisa purogiramu yekuongorora pafoni kuitira kuti uone kuti ndevepi uye kuti chii chavari kuita.
Ziva Ndivanaani Vari Kutaura Kwazvo
Ramba uchitaura uchizaruka uye udzokezve izvozvi zvinotarisirwa nguva dzose nekutsvaga foni yavo yefoni yekutumira sexting nezvimwe zvinhu zvinetso. Dzivisai vechidiki kubva pakugonesa mafaira emafoni uye kuvanyorera ivo vanoita mukuedza kuvanza basa ravo. Teererai nemwana wenyu ari kuyaruka pamusoro pevaya vanove shamwari navo, zvose zviri paIndaneti uye kunze.
Kurukura Mitemo, Sexting Consequences
Tsvakurudza paIndaneti nezvekutumira mitemo yekutumira mameseji mumitemo yako, uye kuregererwa kwekutumira sexting. Verenga nyaya nemwana wako pamusoro pekutumira mitero yekutumira mameseji kunobatsira vechidiki, kubva kuyejiji nekutsvaga mabasa, kuitonga uye kunyange kuzviuraya.
Vanyevera Nekutumira, Kutumira Mashoko Evanhu
Pasinei nepakati, vechidiki vanofanira kudzidziswa kuti vasataurire ruzivo rwakagadzikana pamusoro pavo kuburikidza neIm, email kana kuti kutumira mameseji, kusanganisira chikoro, nhare yefoni kana kero yeimba.
Paunenge usina chokwadi, Block Photo Messaging
Kazhinji nhare dzeserura dzinogona kudzivisa vashandi kutumira kana kugamuchira mifananidzo, kana vasina kupa chirongwa pasina basa iri. Kana iwe uine nyaya nekutumira mameseji ekutumira mameseji, kana kuti unonetseka iwe unogona, iwe unogona kugara uchigadzirisa chirongwa chako chemafoni.
Unoda humwe rubatsiro kutaura nezvekutumira mameseji efoni? Cunningham inopa mahwindo e "Teen and Cell Phones Primer" eBook pane websaiti yake.